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How to Start Healing the Pain from Divorce

When you go through a divorce or your marriage is falling apart, it is normal to feel lost, confused, angry, overwhelmed, victimized, and afraid.

I experienced all these feelings myself not that long ago.

The problem with letting these feelings linger for a long time is that they prevent us from moving forward towards the life we truly want, both for ourselves and for our children.

Your life is changing. Yes. And change is stressful…and can be very scary…and what you’ve gone through hurts so much, but these feelings are there to be addressed and shifted, not suppressed or to overwhelm you. Doing this does not serve you.

During this time, it’s very important that you:

  • Address these feelings to find out their higher message and then, release them, to finally shift them to ones aligned with love
  • Take care of yourself
  • Soothe yourself
  • Love yourself
  • Make choices that support you

The first thing you have to do when you are feeling overpowering emotions that are limiting you is take care of your inner world by finding Peace, Calm, and Acceptance.

Why is this important?

Because you are the one who creates your reality with your thoughts, your feelings, and your choices, which are all affected by your inner world.

And this is true even if you are going through a really difficult time.

Your energy creates your present and future.

You want to have a calm energy wherever you go so that you can think more clearly, feel at peace, and ultimately, be in a receptive space to receive insights, solutions, and attract to yourself the highest outcomes.

The first thing you need to do

when going through a painful situation,

is to heal yourself!

Heal Your Pain.

 

It’s important to shift fear and anger into love, calm, and peace. It’s important that you feel these positive emotions inside, because then, you’ll radiate them.

And what you radiate, you attract.

When you are feeling anger, worry, and guilt, that’s when you need love and peace the most.

When it’s harder to reach for love,

that’s when you need it most.How can you do this? How do you start reaching for love within yourself to ease the pain and feel peace within you?

You start by…

Remembering that YOU are a soul who is powerful, magnificent, and wise.

A soul who is having a divine human experience and that you are creating your reality.

You are NOT a victim of your circumstances.

When you feel like a victim, you feel helpless. You are not a victim. You always have choices…and the choices that you make from now on can be the most empowering choices you make for yourself.

When my husband did things that would hurt me, I felt like a victim. I felt he was doing those things TO me and that I had no choice but to feel hurt. There were times I hurt so much inside because the emotional pain and sadness were too great.

I remember a time when I was laying on the couch in my living room. Crying. My heart hurt so much.

And then, I heard my Spiritual Support Team—my angels and guides—say to me,

This is not happening TO you, but FOR you. Your souls (your husband’s and yours) agreed to go through this experience so that you would learn how to love yourself more and empower yourself. He is actually giving you a gift, even though it may not feel like that right now.”

 

Thanks for my Team’s message, I was able to see my relationship difficulties in a different light…and I understood that I had co-created them in order to grow and ultimately, fulfill my highest destiny.

This in turn, helped me heal my pain faster.

Stop believing you are a victim who has no choices. Your soul knows your true power.

I invite you to go within (right now) and connect with your soul to access this knowing.

Do this now:

Put your hand over your heart and ask it,

What can I do today to start healing my heart and move forward from a place of peace and love towards myself?

What if what’s ahead of you is better than you ever imagined?

What if your divorce is the catalyst put there by your own soul, so that you would fulfill your life purpose and live your soul’s highest vision for your life?

Don’t assume life is going to get worse. This can be the beginning of your best life yet!

What if the universe has something better, bigger, and brighter for you!

Would you be willing to consider that? Would you be willing to consider that maybe this is happening because your soul is calling you to something better…a bigger, more empowered version of you? A version where you are infinitely happy, fulfilled, and totally loving your life!

Hmmm…what might that life look like? I wonder what that bigger, more empowered version of you looks like. I wonder what that version of you being infinitely happy, fulfilled and totally loving your life is like.

Let’s find out!

To help you get started, I’m going to be offering a free live Masterclass,”The 3 Secrets to Heal the Pain & Feel Peace During and After Divorce”  next Thursday, December 7th.

SIGN UP for this free life-transforming masterclass here: www.empowerufromwithing.com/paintopeace

I look forward to showing you how YOU can heal your heart to start living your greatest destiny!

With Love,

Dumari

 

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