Are you feeling stressed about a conversation you will have with someone? Maybe it’s an interaction over the phone or maybe it’s in person.
Are you hoping the call or conversation goes well and that it has a positive result?
I can think of many times I’ve felt that way! Most recently, I can think of 3 instances:
- During the many meetings I’ve had with my soon-to-be-ex-husband to move forward with our divorce.
- A call I had to make to ask someone for money they owed me.
- A conversation I needed to have with my son.
I remember feeling a sense of apprehension and my chest feeling tight right before these interactions. I knew that this tension in my body was telling me that my energy was off and unless I shifted it, I would NOT experience the positive results I wanted from these conversations.
I asked my Spiritual Support Team (my angels, guides and own soul) for help.
And off course, their suggestions made a huge difference! I did what they suggested, felt my energy shift, and then, moved forward with my conversations with a sense of peace.
Not only did the end result in each of these cases was better than I anticipated; the actual experience was easier, too!
Here are the 3 tips my Team gave me to create the highest outcome in these situations. Try them out and let me know how they work for you!
3 Tips to Create the Highest Outcome from An Interaction with Someone
This will shift your vibration super quick!
If you are feeling frustrated, nervous, angry, or upset in any way, remember the power of Love is within you! And the vibration of Love will trump fear every single time!
Remind yourself that your true essence is Love! What qualities of Love do you choose to experience in this moment? There is healing Love, wise Love, empowered Love, etc.
Claim the truth of Love within you by saying the following affirmations (or the ones that feel best to you) in your mind until you feel a shift in your energy. Remember that what you are claiming is already within you:
I am healing Love.”
“I am empowered Love.”
“I am wise Love.”
“I am compassionate Love.”
“I am understanding Love.”
“I am pure Love.”
“I am abundant Love.”
“I am joyful Love.”
“I am peaceful Love.”
“I am powerful Love.”
“I am divine Love.”
“I am infinite Love.”
“I am One Love.”
And if you are saying, “Well, I don’t really know for sure if this who I really am, because I rarely feel this way.” That’s OK. Then, you can say to yourself,
I am willing to be ___ (choose the quality you are claiming, “healing,” “empowered,” etc.) Love.”
It’s important that when you say these affirmations, you tell them FROM a place of KNOWING this is your true essence, and you are reminding yourself of it. You are claiming what is already yours, instead of something you feel you don’t have yet, and want to attract it or bring it to you.
You can look at it as coming from the “inside out” rather than from the “outside in.”
You have the power to choose what you want to experience. Even if you don’t know exactly what it will look like, you know what it will FEEL like…easy, peaceful, harmonious, loving, etc.
Set your intention ahead of time and this will pave the way for the end result.
Say to yourself,
I choose the highest outcome from this _____ (fill in the blank, “call,” “interaction,” “meeting,” “experience,” etc.). I am calling it forth and trust that it is.”
Then, KNOW that EVERYTHING IS ALWAYS WORKING OUT FOR YOU.
“The Truth shall set you free.” Choose to see, experience and express your highest truth. Ask your Spiritual Support Team (your angels, guides and your own soul) to show you what that truth is…and pay attention because you will start receiving reminders of what this truth that your soul already knows, is.
Say to yourself the Prayer of Freedom:
More than I want to fix, heal, control or manipulate anything or anyone, I choose to SEE, EXPERIENCE, EXPRESS the Truth that makes me FREE!
“I invite Love to guide my thoughts, words and actions today.”
Is there something that is making you stressed or anxious?
What interaction are you going to use these tips on?
Try them and tell me how they impact your experience in the Comments below!