Hello Beautiful Soul,
I’ve been thinking of you…a lot!
I wanted to share with you where I’ve been and why I haven’t written for a while.
Maybe you’ve also been there or are there now, or maybe you’re going through a different challenge, but wherever you are, know that it’s all happening FOR you. You may not know why yet, but everything that has happened in your life has happened so that something greater can emerge through you and as you.
Where I have been…
2016 has been the most intense and challenging year I’ve ever experienced, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. It’s also been the most freeing, healing and empowering.
Last September, I separated from my husband and moved to a lovely, small condo with my boys. I love my new place! It is perfect for me and I even have an office wit
h a view of the woods! This is where I am getting lots of inspiration for supporting you in the months to come!
Soon after moving to my new place, I was cooking dinner in my kitchen and had an “A-ha” moment: I realized the connection between a commitment I had made 2 years ago and my marriage ending.
I remembered that 2 years ago I made a commitment to myself to fulfill my greatest destiny in every area of my life (my relationships, my body, my work, my wealth, and my spiritual connection). To me that meant living the most amazing, joyful and fulfilling life possible for me!
I thought things would just get easier and better once I told the universe my intention and commitment, but little did I know that within 6 months my marriage, which I felt was my foundation, would fall apart. The more I tried to make it work, the worse it got. My foundation was crumbling.
The following year was filled with many painful experiences, but my Spiritual Support Team helped me see the gifts and opportunities to empower myself within each one.
Thanks to their guidance and support, I released subconscious fears of
…being abandoned,
…not being loved or accepted for who I am, and
…being betrayed by someone I trusted.
I also shifted beliefs that were limiting me, like the belief that I could not support myself financially doing what I love, or that in order for me to be a good mom and wife, I needed to put my children’s and husband’s needs first before mine.
Have you ever experienced these fears or similar ones? If you have, know that I understand…and that you CAN free yourself from them.
Now back to my “Aha” moment…that September evening while cooking in my new kitchen, I heard my angels say to me,
You had asked to experience your highest destiny in every area of your life and in order for that to happen, you needed to let go of this relationship that was too small for your big destiny. You would not have been able to experience your soul’s highest vision for your life within this relationship.
“You also gave your power away when you made your husband your source of love and financial support. You had to reclaim your power and see that YOU, the divine “Source” within you, is your true source of love and financial abundance, not anyone or anything outside of you.
“Your soul planned these challenges before you came into this lifetime, so that through this process of letting go, you would empower yourself. Thanks to this journey, you not only have empowered yourself from within and freed yourself from limiting beliefs and fears, but now you’ll be able to help others do the same. You will now be able to fully live your highest destiny and your soul’s purpose in every area of your life!”
Wow! This message was so helpful! My heart busted open with gratitude for everything that happened in my relationship, both the “good” and the “bad.” Now I could see more clearly how everything happened FOR my highest good!
As the end of this year gets closer, my Team tells me how important it is for us to find the gifts, lessons and blessings within our experiences. This will help us be thankful for the difficult times. When we do this, we can then find PEACE and CLARITY, and clear our path for MIRACLES to come.
Would you take a moment to reflect on your experiences this past year?
- What experiences have transformed you?
- What did you learn?
- What blessings came from challenges you experienced?
Share your answers below! I love to hear from you and your answers inspire others, too!
…and if you are wondering what possible gifts could come from a challenging time you’ve experienced, schedule a Discovery session with me to see how I can help you discover the blessings in disguise and your soul’s highest vision for your life.
About Dumari
My mission is to help people who are searching for meaning and more fulfillment in their life, remember who they really are (their divine identity), and why they are here (their life purpose), so that they can wake up in the morning with clarity, excitement and connected to the divine support available to them.
When you know your soul’s purpose and tap in to the wisdom, love and practical support of your own Spirit, angels and guides – or as I like to call them, “Your Spiritual Support Team,” your life becomes a joyful, divine adventure!
Working together with our Teams, I’ll show you how to find your purpose and connect to the incredible reSource within you to create a life you absolutely love! To find out how we can work together, click here.
Thank you so much for sharing this Dumari! This came right on time as I recently hit some personal challenges in my life. However, you’ve reminded me to be grateful for the opportunity to experience the transformation that was needed in my life.
Yes,Tameka! When we are grateful for everything that is happening, we can more easily open the way for more good to come in. And when we are especially grateful for the challenges because we know there is a gift somewhere in them, then we really allow the MIRACLES to be manifested in our lives! 🙂
This is all so true. The experiences that have brought me to my knees and transformed me are too many to mention and all have been for my highest good even though they trigger others. My connection to Spirit is not as conversational as yours so I can only imagine the great support that has offered you and am glad you have had it. I have learned to trust though and to wait for the outcome that comes after the discomfort
Thank you for this important conversation.
Thank you for sharing your experience, Patrice. Yes! Trusting that there’s a higher outcome as a result of whatever has happened actually allows it to be manifested more easily…and it does help make us feel better in the process. 🙂