It All Starts With Love…Self-Love
Have you ever thought to yourself, “When something great comes along, then I’ll be happy…then, I’ll feel loved.”
That, my friend, is possibly the biggest delusion of our life.
And, from that discovery emerged the best lesson I’ve ever learned……and the most BEAUTIFUL love affair I’ve ever had!
…It was about a year and a half before my divorce. Late one morning, I was lying in bed, under the covers. It was two days after Christmas. I had been crying all night. I remember feeling so sad, so lonely, and so very unloved.
Eyes red and swollen. I was praying for some relief, when I heard my Team of Angels and Guides say to me,
“Your husband is giving You a gift. Love is the answer…and the answer is within You. You are the source of the love you seek. Nobody else.”
It was a message I will never forget.
That was my ah-ha moment. That moment in my life forever altered the course of my path, and I began a life-transforming journey…a journey of self-healing, self-discovery, and self-empowerment.
Little did I know I would end up falling madly in love with an amazing woman! ME!
It all started with those words that I didn’t fully understand then.
What did, “You are the source of the love you seek,” mean? Did it have to do with loving myself? And, what did loving myself really look like? What did that sound like? What did that feel like?
When I decided to listen to my inner guidance, and be guided by my Soul, I found myself caught in an amazing, new love affair!
With myself!
Yup. You read that right. I actually started dating myself…
I started to spend more time enjoying my own company. Getting to know myself. I started asking myself, “What did I really like? What did I really want from my life? What lit me up with excitement?” And, I made a commitment to value myself, to treat myself with kindness, and to believe in myself in a way I hadn’t before.
As I continued to date myself, I started connecting with who I truly was – the real me– and I began to fall in love with her. I also stopped needing a reason to be happy and started noticing all the ways I was already loved by the universe.
Do you want to know what happened as a result? It was as if my path was transformed by divine magic. The life of my dreams started to unfold before my very eyes! And, I can honestly say that I’ve never been happier, nor felt more loved, as I do today!
So, the truth is this. When you are already happy, already connected to yourself and loving yourself, that is when great things will happen.
So, if there is something you want in your life to change and are thinking, “Once ___ (what you want) is here, then I’ll be truly happy,” remember that it ALL starts with the love you must foster inside yourself…Self-Love!
Wait…What? You want me to DATE MYSELF?
Actually, yes! Listen to your Heart. Listen to your Soul. They are telling you to “Go ahead! Choose to F.L.Y. (First Love Yourself)! And, everything else will begin to follow.”
In honor of St. Valentine’s, I have just put together a beautiful, comprehensive guide and online masterclass called The Ultimate Guide to Dating Yourself & Making It Awesome!
It is created to help you to reconnect with your heart and soul and begin to love YOURSELF again!
Loving EVERY part of YOU. ALL of you. Enjoying being with yourself. This is a chance to give yourself what you really want…your love, your company, your understanding, and your attention.
It’s also about believing in YOU. Knowing that you are whole on your own, and you don’t need anyone else to become whole. This is your life. It is your heart. No one has power over that except YOU.
The masterclass is taking place February 11th at 6pm EST.
CLICK HERE for details to access this awesome guide and the online event.
I want so much for you to experience the immense joy of falling madly in love with yourself!
So, ENJOY!
Oceans of Love,
Dumari
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