This is a love note I received from my dear friend, Swati, who was with me throughout my divorce.
(If you’ve read my book, The Gift of Divorce, you know about Swati!)
“Dumari, I have watched your journey for many, many years. And loved every moment of it. Even when you thought you were breaking, your light shined brighter. ESPECIALLY when you thought you were dealing with the worst, you shined the brightest. Not for a moment did I think you were broken.
“You show a different way of handling a divorce or a breakup.
“I know you were heartbroken. Yet, you refused to blame. AND you refused to be a victim. And that fact itself kept you shining brightest through your lowest. You sought Divine Guidance and saw the higher purpose in everything. And I saw you step into your dream life. Just when I think — she’s REALLY living it up – could it get any better? You show me that yes, it can get better. LOL!! You have truly turned your life magical.
“This experience can shatter people, make them feel less-than, inadequate, unloved, not-good-enough, scared, insecure…it can feel like life has ended. But when I watched you go through it, I saw how you were trying to see it from a higher perspective, and you realized, with the help of your guides, that this whole thing was freeing you up to live the life YOU wanted to.
“I have heard you express so much gratitude for your ex, even when things were hard. And I saw how holding your vibration high attracted amazing stuff in your life right from the start of the process.
“I saw you getting fitter and healthier, even as you cried. I saw you starting a new life in a new house….a house that is sooooo YOU – full of light, peace, lightness, joy.
“I saw you wipe away massive debt like it was nothing. I saw you buy a new car.
“I saw your sons blossom into amazing young men who respect and love you and seek guidance from you. I see you living it up going for dancing, parties with new friends, writing your first book – a bestseller, you radiating joy each moment, you inspiring people with your light, you working so successfully on your business…and SO much more.
“I hope many more can do divorce the way you did it. And I hope many more can actually really live a life full of fun, love, passion, laughter, freedom the way you do. I know you can guide people well, because you have actually WALKED this path, and are still walking.
“Anyone going through a divorce or a breakup will benefit so greatly to be helped by you, to be shown a lighter, higher, more joyful path of finding the gift in any heartbreak, in finding out how to actually turn heartbreak into a joyful DREAM LIFE.”